内容摘要 从悲伤和哀悼到衰老和人际关系,诗人、红皮书撰稿人朱迪思·维奥尔斯特在这本关于爱、失去和放手的研究中进行了深思细致的研究。 在精神分析、文学和个人经历的影响下,“必要的损失”是理解和接受生活的必然性的一种哲学。 在《必要的损失》一书中,朱迪思·维奥尔斯特将她可观的才能转化为一个严肃而深远的主题:我们如何在生活中不可避免的损失中成长和改变。她很有说服力地指出,通过失去母亲的保护、失去对人际关系不可能的期望、失去年轻的自己、因分离和死亡所失去亲人,我们对生活会有了更深刻的认识,会拥有真正的成熟和更全面的智慧。她写了一本既肯定生活又改变生活的书。 From grief and mourning to aging and relationships, poet and Redbook contributor Judith Viorst presents a thoughtful and researched study in this examination of love, loss, and letting go. Drawing on psychoanalysis, literature, and personal experience, Necessary Losses is a philosophy for understanding and accepting life's inevitabilities. In Necessary Losses, Judith Viorst turns her considerable talents to a serious and far-reaching subject: how we grow and change through the losses that are a certain and necessary part of life. She argues persuasively that through the loss of our mothers' protection, the loss of the impossible expectations we bring to relationships, the loss of our younger selves, and the loss of our loved ones through separation and death, we gain deeper perspective, true maturity, and fuller wisdom about life. She has written a book that is both life affirming and life changing.
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