如何抚养成年人 英文原版 How to Raise an Adult
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作者Julie Lythcott Haims
出版社St.Martin’s Press
ISBN9781250093639
出版时间2016-08
印刷时间2016-08
印数1千册
装帧平装
开本32开
纸张轻型纸
页数368页
字数1千字
定价163元
上书时间2024-07-02
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Format: Paperback| 368 pages
Dimensions: 139x 210x 23mm| 385.55g
Publication date: 02 Aug 2016
Publisher: Griffin Publishing
Imprint: Saint Martin's Griffin,U.S.
ISBN: 9781250093639
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内容简介
在担任斯坦福大学新生院长的十年间，朱莉·莱思考特·海姆斯注意到，家长对学生生活的参与程度有了惊人的提高。每年，越来越多的家长对学生的学业、课外活动和职业选择进行控制，他们宁可冒着孩子失败或失望的风险也要把事情掌握在自己手中。与此同时，莱斯科特·海姆斯遇到了越来越多的学生，由于父母的过度关注，他们缺乏强烈的自我意识，没有能力处理成人生活的要求。
在《如何抚养成年人》中，Lythcott-Haims利用研究、与招生官员、教育工作者和雇主的对话，以及她自己作为母亲和学生的见解，强调了过度养育对儿童和他们压力过大的父母，以及我们整个社会的伤害方式。Lythcott-Haims对父母的希望，特别是导致过度帮助的恐惧感感同身受，同时提供了实用的替代策略，强调了允许儿童自己犯错并培养成功所需的复原力、机智和内在决心的重要性。本书适用于幼儿和20多岁的父母，对青少年的父母具有特别的价值--对于那些希望确保下一代能够有能力、有信心地掌握自己的生活的人来说，本书是一个集结号。
Across a decade as Stanford University's dean of freshmen, Julie Lythcott-Haims noticed a startling rise in parental involvement in students' lives. Every year, more parents were exerting control over students' academic work, extracurricular, and career choices, taking matters into their own hands rather than risk their child's failure or disappointment. Meanwhile, Lythcott-Haims encountered increasing numbers of students who, as a result of hyper attentive parenting, lacked a strong sense of self and were poorly equipped to handle the demands of adult life.
In How to Raise an Adult, Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student clean to highlight the ways in which over parenting harms children and their stressed-out parents, and our society at large. While empathising with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to over helping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success. Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twenty something's and of special value to parents of teens - this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
作者简介
朱莉·莱思考特·海姆斯曾在斯坦福大学担任新生和本科生咨询院长，她因对本科生经验的贡献而获得丁克尔斯皮尔奖。她曾就直升机父母的现象发表过广泛的演讲和文章，她的作品曾出现在TEDx演讲以及《纽约时报》和《芝加哥论坛报》上。朱莉拥有斯坦福大学的学士学位和哈佛大学法学院的法学博士学位，并正在攻读加州艺术学院的写作硕士学位。除了非小说之外，她还写创意非小说、诗歌和戏剧。她与她的丈夫、他们的两个孩子和她的母亲居住在加利福尼亚州的帕洛阿尔托。
Julie Lythcott-Haims served as dean of freshmen and undergraduate advising at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. She has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in The New York Times and the Chicago Tribune. Julie holds a BA from Stanford University and a JD from Harvard Law School, and is pursuing an MFA in writing from California College of the Arts. In addition to nonfiction, she writes creative nonfiction, poetry, and plays. She resides in Palo Alto, California, with her husband, their two teenagers, and her mother.
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