目录 人性的弱点 How This Book Was Written—And Why By Dale Carnegie 本书的形成,为什么是由戴尔·卡耐基写成的 Nine Suggestions on How to Get the Most out of This Book 从本书获得最大教益的九条建议 Part One Fundamental Techniques in Handling People 人际交往的基本技巧 1“IfYou Want to Gather Honey.Don’t Kick overthe eehive” 要想采蜜,就不要踢翻蜂巢 2 The Big Secret ofDealing with People· 与人交往的秘诀 3“He Who Can Do This Has the Whole World with Him.He Who Cannot Walks a Lonely Way” 激发他人的强烈需求 Part Two Six Ways to Make People Like You 让别人喜欢你的六种方法 1 Do This and You’11 Be Welcome Anywhere 这样做你就会到处受欢迎 2 A Simple Way to Make a Good First Impression 产生良好印象的简单方法 3 IfYouDon’tDoThis.YouAreHeadedforTrouble 牢记他人的名字 4 An Easy Way to Become a Good Conversationalist 如何成为优秀的谈话家 5 How to Interest People 如何让别人对你感兴趣 6 How to Make People Like You Instantly 如何使人马上喜欢你 Part Three How to Win People to Your Way of Thinking 如何赢得别人的赞同 1 You Can’t Win an Argument 你赢不了争论 2 A SureWay ofMakingEnemies--AndHowtoAvoidIt 如何避免树敌招怨 3 If You’re Wrong.Admit It 勇于承认自己的错误 4 A Drop ofHoney 一切从友善开始 5 The Secret ofSocrates 苏格拉底的秘诀 6 The Safety Valve in Handling Complaints 处理抱怨的灵丹妙药 7 How to Get Co—operation 如何赢得合作 8 A Formula That Will Work Wonders for You 从对方的立场看问题 9 What Everybody Wants 每个人都需要的东西 10 An Appeal That Everybody Likes 激发高尚的动机 11 The Movies Do It.TV Does It.Why Don't You Do It? 戏剧化地表达你的意见 12 When Nothing Else Works.Try This 提出有意义的挑战 Part Four Be a Leader:How to Change People without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment 领导艺术:如何改变他人而不招致反感或怨恨 1 IfYou Must Find Fault.This is the Way to Begin 从赞美和欣赏开始 2 How to Criticize--and Not Be Hated for It 间接提醒对方的错误 3 Talk about Your Own Mistakes First 先谈你自己的错误 4 No One Likes to Take Orders 没有人喜欢接受命令 5 Let the Other Person Save Face 让对方保住面子 6 How to Spur People on to Success 称赞最微小的进步 7 Give a Dog a Good Name 送人一顶高帽子 8 Make the Fault Seem Easy to Co~ect 使错误更容易改正 9 Making People Glad to Do What You Want 使人乐意做你建议的事 Part Five Letters That Produced Miraculous Results 创造奇迹的信 Part Six Seven Rules forMakingYourHome Life Happier 使你的家庭生活更幸福的七条规则 1 How to Dig Your Marital Grave in the Quickest Possible Way 不要挖掘婚姻的坟墓 2 Love and Let Live 爱对方,并给他自由 3 Do This and You’ll Be Looking up the Time-Tables to Reno 不要作无用的批评 4 A Quick Way to Make Everybody Happy 让每个人都高兴的捷径 5 They Mean So Much to a Woman 对女人最有意义的事 6 IfYou Want to Be Happy.Don’t Neglect This One 如果你想快乐,不要忽视这点 7 Don’t Be a“Marriage Illiterate” 不要做“婚姻的文盲” 人性的优点 Preface:How This Book Was Written--and Why 本书是如何写的,为什么要写这本书 Part One Fundamental Facts You Should Know about Worry 了解忧虑的基本事实 1 Live in“Day-tight Compartments” 活在“完全独立的今天” 2 A Magic Formula for Solving Worry Situations 消除忧虑的魔法公式 3 What Worry May Do to You 忧虑会使人短命 Part Two Basic Techniques in Analysing Worry 分析忧虑的基本技巧 1 How to Analyse and Solve Worry Problems· 解开忧虑之谜 2 How to Eliminate Fifty Per Cent ofYour Business Worries 如何减少生意上50%的忧虑 Part mee How to Break the Worry Habit Before It Breaks You 如何改变忧虑的习惯 1 How to Crowd Worry out ofYour Mind 消除思想上的忧虑 2 Don't Let the Beetles Get YOU Down 不要为小事而垂头丧气 3 A Law That Will Outlaw Many ofYour Worries 平均概率可以战胜忧虑 4 Cooperate with the Inevitable 接受不可避免的事实 5 Put a“Stop-Loss”Order on Your Worries 让忧虑“到此为止” 6 Don’t Try to Saw Sawdust 不要锯木屑 Part Four Seven Ways to Cultivate A Mental Attitude That WiU Bring You Peace and Happiness 培养平安快乐心理的七种方法 1 EightWordsThatCanTransformYourLife 态度可以改变你的生活 2 The High Cost ofGetting Even 报复的代价太高了 3 IfYou Do This.You Will Never Worry about Ingratitude 对人施恩勿望回报 4 Would YOU Take a Million Dollars for What YOU Have? 你愿以100万卖尽你拥有的一切吗? 5 Find YourseIf and Be Yourself:Remember There Is No OBe Else on Earth Like YOU 保持自我本色 6 If YOU Have a LemOB.Make a Lemonade 如果你有一个柠檬,就做一杯柠檬汁 7 How to Cure Melancholy in Fourteen Days 怎样在两周内治愈忧郁 Part Five How to Ke印from Worrying about Criticism 免受批评的忧虑 1 RememberThat No One Ever Kicks a Dead Dog 没有人会踢一只死狗 2 Do This——and Criticism Can’t Hurt You 不要让批评伤害你 3 Fool Things I Have Done 我做过的傻事 Part Six Six Ways to Prevent Fatigue and Worry and Keep YourEnergy and Spirits High 常保充沛活力的六种方法 1 How to Add One Hour a Day to Your Waking Life 每日多清醒一小时 2 What Makes You Tired-and What You Can Do About It 是什么使你疲劳 3 How The Housewife Can Avoid Fatigue--and Keep Looking Young 家庭主妇如何避免疲劳并青春永驻 4 Four Good Working Habits That Will Help Prevent Fatigue and Worry 防止疲劳和忧虑的良好工作习惯 5 How to Banish the Boredom That Produces Fatigue,Worry,and Resentment 如何消除烦闷 6 How to Keep from Worrying about Insomnia 不要为失眠而忧虑 Part Seven How to Find the Kind of work in Which You May Be Happy and Successful 找到通往快乐与成功的工作 1 The Major Decision of Your Life 人生的重要决定 Part Eight How to Lessen Your Financial Worries 如何减少金钱的烦恼 1 Seventy Per Cent of All Our Worries 百分之七十的烦恼 PartNine“How I ConqueredWorry”—32 True Stories/443 克服忧虑的32则真实故事
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