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作者夏家善 著
出版社天津古籍出版社
出版时间2016-06
版次1
装帧平装
货号A4
上书时间2024-11-07
《双节堂庸训》立足于作者几十年的人生搏击,总结人世沧桑,糅合圣贤之道,以更具针对性和实用性的内容去训导子孙如何适应社会,经受种种风浪、立身作人的方式、方法,囊括了修身律己、读书治学、处事之道、子女教育等方面的内容。
汪辉祖(1730年-1807年),字焕曾,号龙庄,浙江萧山瓜沥原云英乡大义村人。清代乾、嘉时期的良吏。早年多次应试未中,随入幕僚为绍兴师爷。于乾隆四十年得中进士,五十二年为宁远知县,五十六年为道州牧。告官退养在城里苏家潭,享年78岁。
家境贫困,父早亡,为养生母和继母,二十岁就开始幕僚(师爷)生活,他好学不惚,精明干炼,博览群书。
《双节堂庸训》自序.....1
卷一述先
本系..................................7
显祖考文林公轶事..13
显祖妣沈太孺人轶事....................................................................18
显考奉直公轶事........19
显妣方太宜人轶事..22
显妣王太宜人轶事..23
显生妣徐太宜人轶事....................................................................28
卷二律己
尽心..................................32
人须实做........................33
人从本上做起.............34
做人先立志..................36
须耐困境........................38
常存退一步想.............38
时日不可虚度.............39
作事要认真..................40
作事要有恒..................40
事必期于有成.............41
要顾廉耻........................42
贵慎小节........................42
当爱名.............................43
勿好胜.............................44
财色两关尤当著力..45
因果之说不可废........45
不可责报于目前........48
名过实者造物所忌..48
不可妄与命争.............49
少年富贵须自爱........50
处丰难于处约.............51
欲不可纵........................52
贫贱当励气节.............52
择稳处立脚..................53
居官当凛法纪.............54
宦归尤当避嫌.............54
守身..................................55
卷三治家
统于所尊则整齐........57
孝以顺为先..................58
惟孝裕后........................59
继娶难为父..................60
事后母.............................60
事鳏父寡母更宜曲体....................................................................61
友难于孝........................62
冢子宜肩重任.............63
弟当敬事兄长.............64
齐家须从妇人起........64
妇言不可听..................66
妇人不良咎在其夫..67
女子当教以妇道........67
佳子弟多由母贤........68
教子弟须权其才质..69
子弟勿使有私财........69
谨财用出入..................70
财贵能用........................71
勿贪不义之利.............71
勿争虚体面..................72
俭与吝啬不同.............73
非俭不能惜福.............73
服用戒过奢..................75
俭非勤不可..................75
妇道尤以勤为要........77
妇职不可不修.............77
妇不宜男当买妾........79
置妾不当取其才色..79
有子勿轻置妾.............80
勿使妾操家..................81
娶醮妇宜慎..................82
无子当立后..................83
勿以异姓乱宗.............84
无子可继宜依礼祔食.....................................................................86
不可求为人后.............87
祭先宜敬........................88
祭产宜豫........................89
值祭不宜论产.............90
宾宴宜洁........................90
勿淹葬.............................91
疾病宜速治..................92
婚嫁宜量力..................93
相子择妇........................93
攀高亲无益..................94
缔姻宜取厚德之家..95
奴婢宜督约..................95
奴婢不中用宜速遣..96
奴婢疾病宜善遣........97
婢女当养其廉耻........97
乳媪不宜轻雇.............98
保全节操........................99
无志秉节者不可强..101
酒最偾事........................101
戏具不宜蓄..................102
架上不可有淫书........102
田宅交易须分明........103
便宜产业不宜受........104
契税不可漏..................105
勿欠额赋........................106
官项不宜借..................106
勿受来历不明之物..107
勿贪重息出贷.............108
勿因息轻举债.............109
债宜速偿........................109
子孙多产宜分析........110
析产宜酌留公项........110
有室有家之男女宜为曲谅.......................111
嫁女亦须体恤.............112
爱怜少子长孙之故..113
勿营多藏........................114
宜量力赡族..................114
宜储书籍........................116
造宅不宜过丽.............116
长斋拜经宜戒.............118
女尼宜绝其往来........119
卷四应世
勿欺..................................120
处事宜小心..................121
大节不可迁就.............122
宁吃亏.............................122
勿图占便宜..................123
勿任性.............................123
遇横逆尤当忍耐........124
让人有益处..................125
断不可启讼..................126
勿斗争.............................126
言语宜慎........................127
小人不可忤..................128
嫉恶不宜太甚.............128
善恶不可不分.............129
勿苛人所短..................130
勿过刚.............................131
遇事宜排解..................131
勿预人讼事..................132
勿轻作居间..................132
势力不可恃..................133
信不可失........................134
勿傍人门户..................134
勿贪受赠遗..................135
贫贱勿取厌亲友........135
富贵勿薄视姻邻........136
须予人可近..................137
失意人当礼遇.............138
保全善类........................139
敬官长.............................139
勿交结官长..................140
睦邻有道........................141
受恩不可不报.............142
索债毋太急..................142
贷亲不如贷友.............143
宜量友力........................144
讳贫伪贫皆不必........144
受怜受忌皆不可........145
与人共事不可不慎..145
勿破人机关..................146
知受侮方能成人........147
老成人不可忽.............148
先友宜敬事..................149
故人子宜念..................150
不必议论二氏.............150
卷五蕃后
裕后有本........................153
济美不易........................154
教当始于孩提.............155
宜令知物力艰难........155
宜令习劳........................156
宜令知用财之道........156
宜令勿游手好闲........158
宜杜华奢之渐.............159
父严不如母严.............159
蒙师宜择........................160
不宜受先生称字........161
读书以有用为贵........162
读书求于己有益........163
须学为端人..................164
作文字不可有名士气....................................................................165
文字勿涉刺诽.............167
勿作秽亵词..................169
文章关福泽..................170
读古人文取法宜慎..170
勿轻为人作诗文序..171
勿记录时事..................172
浮薄子弟不可交........173
勿轻换帖称兄弟........174
择友有道........................175
业儒亦治生之术........175
读书胜于谋利.............176
勿慕读书虚名.............177
勿任子弟匿瑕作伪..178
不宜轻令子弟附学..180
授徒勿误人子弟........181
力田勿欠人租息........186
艺事无不可习.............187
幕道不可轻学.............188
习医宜慎........................190
勿妄言相墓术.............192
作事须专........................193
临财须清白..................194
勿自是.............................195
勿自矜.............................195
当明知止知足之义..196
言动当念先人.............197
门阀不可恃..................198
干蛊大难........................200
须作子孙榜样.............202
不可道他人先世短处....................................................................203
为后人留余地.............204
穷达皆以操行为上..205
得志当思种德.............206
人当于世有用.............207
恶与过不同..................208
清议不可犯..................209
宜知盈虚消长之理..209
听言不可不察.............210
宜常念忠恕之道........211
圣贤实可学而至........212
人在自为........................213
不孝者不祥..................214
善恶不在大..................216
双节赠言不可不读..218
申嫡庶之辨..................219
传世名系........................222
卷六述师述友
童子试.............................223
乡试..................................224
会试..................................227
受业..................................230
亡友..................................237
后记...........................................255
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